Originally Posted by KitCat
There is more stuff to move out - at least one more trip? possibly two?

I'm just reminding myself to have ZERO expectations.

Continuing to focus on myself and trying to stop stewing over the bike offer AND the call I did not pick up. Those things happened yesterday and have no weight on today.


This sounds like a plan, Kit. I know how hard it is to focus on yourself, especially given what the world is like right now. Keep pushing through. I'm thinking of you.


I'm 40, H is 36. No kids. No infidelity of which I'm aware.
Mini BD January 2020 -- not sure if he wants to try anymore
BD March 2020 -- separation