If you want to legally separate and legally move down the path to divorce, then knock out the separation agreement for her.
Originally Posted by SteveS
On one hand, I'm not thrilled with the prospect of getting this document in place because it's basically the entire work of getting D from an agreement perspective. On the other, this is what she said she needs to move towards a resolution, and one of my 180s w/r/t the two of us is taking the lead on management matters relating to the both of us.
I think when you do this and remove the "hard work" you remove the consequence of her choice and she never has to face the reality and really ask herself if this is what she wants. She said she "needs this to move towards a resolution". Maybe she meant that when she said it, maybe not. But with her feelings being all over the place I would not hold this statement like it's Gospel either.
I also think you can bring this to a quicker resolution by doing this. I don't know if that is true.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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