Thanks for replying LH!
Agree it was weird, it is hard the times when I see her 5 minutes in a week.
So many feelings. I had just read the "Newcomer with WW" threads again and had anger inside.
I regretted asking if she wants to talk, immediately after. On the other hand it gave me a hint that she isnt sure about herself.

Stupid not to give her a time/date to talk!
You think I should suggest it? She knows we will see each other later this week when she has the kids again.

Update:
W is really strange...
As those of you who follow me know I repainted D5's room a few weeks back.
Now she had painted D2's room.
She had also bought new socks for kids, which I also did last week (So there was no need for more).
Its like she is following my moves to not be "worse" or something.
Typical W she also did a half-ass job with painting so there are spots on the floor and some places need more paint...
Also she apparently used my pants when painting and got some paint on them...
IT is water-based and can probably be clean but WTF?

Anyway. Would appreciate some input on how to move forward giving the strange exchange earlier today and if I should tell her she needs to clean my pants or just do it myself and tell her not to use them again.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021