Persistent Endurance (Part 8)

[curtis7]

The texts have continued indicating that OM1 sent a few pictures out to “trusted” people and that W didn’t honor her end of the deal. They say let us know when you want the numbers and pictures.

Strange wording, considering there is no honor among cheaters.

They say let us know when you want the numbers and pictures.

Was the pronoun "us" actually used in the text messages?

Hi Sandi! Very strange indeed. Here are the texts:

Anonymous: “Ask your wife about OM1 and OM3. We have a bit of information that may change your mind about her, things you may not have known or things she has kept from you. If not, we have their numbers if you would like to ask them how they know W.“
Curtis: “May I ask who this is and why you are offering this information now?”
Anon: “Doesn't matter much. Offering this information now? A few people know....people that work with W and OM1. Ask her.”
Anon: “We both know these aren't uncharted waters for you and her. You act like you do not know she has gone off on you a few times. Ask her and see how honest she is about OM1 and OM3. She works with OM1 and OM3, we are still getting more information about him. If she doesn't tell you and OM1, we have a few pictures that may interest you.”
Anon: “If I were you, I would not tell her you know. Catch her in the act. She is telling you something different to what she is doing. We have both of their numbers if you have any questions to ask them.”
Anon: “Be patient please, it'll pay off for you.”
Anon: “To catch a woman like her, you must be patient, it will pay off for you, Curtis.”
Anon: “Let us guess, you can not respond because she is next to you?”
Curtis: “I appreciate your concern. I need some time to think things through. Let me ask is she or anyone in my family in danger?”
Anon: “Absolutely not!”
Curtis: “Ok, thank you.”
Anon: “She is definitely seeing someone though. And has been for a while. You must know that. We can provide you his name, number, where he lives. Only if it matters to you.”
Anon: “I guess it does not bother you that your wife is seeing another man. Puzzling.”
Anon: “You let us know when you want the pictures and numbers so you can call for yourself. Obviously she is lying to you.”
Anon: “Do not say you were not told ahead of time.”
Anon: “That woman is only using you for her security.“
Anon: “If you think these are messages to upset you, they are not. If W telling you 1 thing and doing another, you need to know. She is not and has not been honest with you in so long. Ask her about OM1, whom she works with, ask her about their affair. He's sent a few pictures out to "trusted" people. This has all happened when she was with you and the cat snuck out of the bag because W did not honor her end of the deal.”

One error in their texts is that OM3 doesn’t work with her. He lives 2 hours away.

IMHO, you need to ask yourself what do you have to gain with these phone numbers and pictures. You already know she was cheating with various men. What would you do with the numbers? Have a chat with these dishonorable men, expecting the truth? And, if there are photos circulating, I doubt you could stop it. This will only have power over you, if you take the bait.

I’ve known about these men for over a year. I have their numbers, I know where they live. I know more than I ever wanted to due to snooping. I never confronted them. I have no interest in ever dealing with them unless they are a threat to my family.

The anonymous person sounds as if they want to remain in the shadows while feeling gratified that your WW pays the price for her hidden deeds. IDK that it would come under the heading of blackmail. To me, it sounds like something a spiteful female would do. You know, there are some people in the world that just get irked at the thought of someone "getting away" with secret, inappropriate behavior. Especially, if that it's someone they don't like. They take it upon themselves to drop hints (or more) to the blinded LBH, especially if it looks like there could be a reconciliation.......without him knowing the full story. Maybe it is a co-worker or a scorned woman.......who knows. Apparently, they seem to think if you have phone numbers and photos, you'll distribute your own brand of justice........and they get to sit back and watch the show, or the results of it.

I think if you respond, then they've got ya!

Sandi, I think you may be onto something about a vengeful co-worker. I wonder if this is an attempt to smear her and ruin her reputation at work. Maybe W has an idea of who they are and why they want to expose her. As a former WW, would you want to know this is going on behind the scenes?