KK, Look at actions OW, bought a house, moved his stuff out.
For some reason I had trouble sleeping last night. I wasn't overly worried or anxious and yesterday had not been that bad - H and I were calm in our interactions. Neither of us got upset or angry.
I was able to vent to a good friend afterwards --- pouring out all the trapped emotions. Still didn't feel the need to cry but was confused in the short term but making peace with that.
H never called back, or texted so what he needed must have passed or was not that important. I go back to what you wrote LH --- his actions - OW, bought a house, moving his stuff out. Those are the actions of a man who wants out of his M. Who knows what the motorcycle comment was all about - guilt?
Focusing on me today. Still exercising working on my P.I.E.S. I will admit that sometimes when you spend so much time working on yourself so see with a huge magnifying lens on mistakes you made with your S. That ends up being more pain to work through... but I'm focusing on myself. I look amazing!!!! I know I left a good mental picture in his brain when he drove away yesterday.