Thanks for sharing that thread, Can. I feel like every so often I go through a period of questioning what H is going through and thinking I'm losing my mind, and then I read something like this and it's uncanny: "A man in midlife crisis tries to get back to his youth. He tries to shrug off his identity because he's deeply unhappy with it. In effect, he runs away from the life - and family - he's built to date. Because his middle-aged identity makes him so unhappy, it unravels and chaos takes the place of the personality and character he developed in the first half of his life. I'd describe what I witnessed as being not a nervous breakdown but a breakdown in an established identity." I can't know what's going on inside my H, but I do know from the outside this is what it looks like.
Happy Easter, Can! I hope you are having a great day.
Hi Cardinal, hope you had a Happy Easter as well. Great thread right! What you posted I experience too, especially the losing my mind part. (Especially now!) The breakdown of identity. Everything you posted...check , check, check.
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