They say that W has not been honest with me, urge me to ask her the truth about them, and claim to have pictures.
If I recall correctly, you desire a monogamous marriage but will accept an open marriage (e.g., you kept that horse around, and let her move in without any terms such as monogamy, transparency, etc.) You've tried many things to get to a monogamous marriage. It must be frustrating she won't offer that.
If knowledge of what your ex-wife is doing with other men excites you, ask. If not, then don't. From a practical perspective you already know she's a WW and she hasn't agreed to reconcile. In your shoes I wouldn't ask, but I also wouldn't have let her move in. Choose what's right for you.
Originally Posted by Curtis
Feels good to be with the kids everyday and have them here, in their home.
No judgement here. If this feels good to you, that's great. All's well between consenting adults.
