Thanks for the response. I’ve always thought of our relationship as pretty equal but helpful to hear your thoughts on alpha male and to take a look in more detail. She does frequently text with several different people, both from work and from our social lives. I know her phone password and she knows mine so if she is doing something on that front she’s definitely being very careful because I haven’t noticed anything. Right now we continue to orbit around each other and the kids with relatively normal and mundane interactions, with the main difference being that at night she heads to the guest room once the kids go to sleep, doesn’t wear her rings right now, and is making an effort not to get dressed around me as she normally would, which I guess is an effort to distance me from seeing her without clothes on...