With switching I mean when she leaves the kids and I take over responsibility.
She probably wants to minimize time with me, but it feels like it might be a bit strange for the kids.
Not used to this whole life style and with new situations my brain tends to think W will act as the old W.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021