I think sometimes good hearted people on this board will sometimes say some things like "he's confused" or "he doesn't know what he wants" to try to make you feel better. He's not RIGHT NOW but at some point he may surely wonder if he mad the right decision.
You have to let him grow.
Thanks for the reminder of where H is at. I'm forever hopeful/optimistic and of course suffer like so many others that if I just say the right thing even though it gets glossed over at the moment I could be planting seeds of doubt that may sprout.
^^^^ I have stopped doing that.... thinking that anything I say has an impact. You are correct in that he is resolute in his decision or he wouldn't be moving all his stuff out. I hope I can continue to be strong today and act as if. I miss talking to him/sharing things with him. It will be hard not saying a word to him and only being responsive if he initiates.
I did practice a few phrases last night. What if he wants to have an R talk? He certainly didn't earlier this week but I needed to be prepared as I didn't want to get caught off guard... I have a better chance of winning the powerball than H having an R talk today, but no one likes getting caught with their pants down...
