I get a kick out of spouses when they get upset because they don’t get temp checked. Waiting for a temp check is the same as a dog begging for scraps at the table. You’re better then that.
Nothing has changed and nothing is likely to change for a really long time. I really hope you can understand.
I'm understanding that temp checks are really just nothing but to keep LBS on the hook. I guess there was some excitement on my end that he even wants there to be a hook at all - he is 100% sure this M cannot be saved and he has OW/GF.
I got called out by my male bff for having too many negative emotions so I was trying to prod forward and fake PMA until I get there. Perhaps I was looking for a positive in the situation and forcing to keep things upbeat given my stress/negative emotions on this board lately. Frankly, I still don't know ---- I don't know if I would recognize at this point... was it a temp check?
