I've never had one... so help me figure it out. Maybe its not temp check?
I need pic of motorcycle odometer so wanted to check with H to see if he could get one prior to coming tomorrow to get his stuff moved out.
Me: Can you send me a pic of the mileage on the bike? H: Can't take a picture at the moment but it is at 3850 Me: Ok
With almost no time to do anything with that information...
H:What did you come up with? Me: Thank you for the mileage. Haven't looked yet walking the dogs. Will discuss tomorrow. See you then.
^^^^ That is the most confidence I've had with text interacting with H. That was a strong response with me ending the conversation at its peak BUT also leaving it open looped.. did NOT answer him directly. Additionally I acknowledged he is coming tomorrow to move out stuff and I sound pretty upbeat!!!!
YEAH ME for the WIN!!! Maybe some people on here will critique this and say I should have left the dog comment out... maybe... but I wanted him to know I'm busy and my life doesn't revolve around getting information for him.
SOOOOO Ladies and Gentlemen... did I just get temp checked??
Hours later- H: did you purchase an iPhone? [okay, H knows I would NEVER buy an iPhone - I'm anti apple]
After 1 1/2hr- Me: ? No H: Got an odd text sure it was a scam
???? He knew it was a scam... but still used it as an excuse to see why I was too busy to discuss motorcycle value today???
Part of me didn't want to answer the text at all. If I buy a phone its my business. He already knows I no longer use our previous joint credit card.
The other part of me was like.... well he did answer the question about the mileage on the bike so I should also be polite.
I shouldn't be excited but I've never been temp checked so I may not recognize. Frankly with all H's anger I felt he didn't even see me as Plan X, Y, Z let alone B. I certainly will not settle for B... I'm an A!!!! I'm an over achiever to the max... I'm an A+!!!
Certainly would appreciate input. I'm pretty upbeat this evening considering I just pack 40% of husbands belongs into plastic totes tonight. I may open a bottle of wine and do some day drinking tomorrow to get through this.
