Stick to your path. Continue the high road. Cordial and indifferent. Let God have him. Focus on you.
There is nothing wrong with having hope. Just do not put a timeline on it; don’t want to turn hope into an expectation.
I do empathize and understand you caring about H. I still care about XW. Funny thing about caring is that sometimes letting them go and not caring, is actually the best and most caring thing you can do. MLCers have to make mistakes and find their way out of them. They need to grow up.
You really are progressing well. Compassionate indifference. You got this.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.