You're not stupid. You built a life together that meant a lot to you. It's hard to let that go. I would get rid of Facebook at least for awhile. I would also let your MIL know that you need space right now.
A year is simply not enough time for him to discover that his new life is all rainbows and sunshine.
I am really sorry you are going through this right now.
Thank you for your support.
I know his mother is a busy body. I just hoped that when she said she was praying for me/us that it meant she was hoping we could find a solution for our M.
Ultimately I guess she was just being nosey about my end of things since she is around his end of things so much. But the party with OW was a smack in the face. H is determined to get out of my life, our life and he has her in his kids lives and his extended families.
I ache so much.
I should just give him the D and be done with it.
He has shown NO sign of wavering on his end... no temp checking... He is 100% checked out.
I feel like I'm a fool... not a woman a man would be a fool to leave. I know all I can do is work on myself. I know my H - he has already proposed... already talking M with her as soon as he is D and is moving her into his new home.
Could I have been a bigger idiot.
Seriously - I love all the support I've gotten here. Everyone has been a gem while I went through my rollercoaster ride.. but I have to face reality that my time at the amusement park is over.
