Originally Posted by LH19
KK,

I am going to try to make this simple. Let him get his stuff and get the hell out of there. Go absolutely 100% NC unless it's about D. He will either like his new life or he may look back and realize what he gave up. You have absolutely no control over it.

Listen to me when I say he 100% thinks he's doing the right thing and could care 2 $hits about you. Then can and probably will change many years down the road.

There are no tricks, gimmicks, protocols to shorten the process. Time and space are your allies.


Thank you.... ugh...

My MIL has been texting a lot this week... She asked to me help in regards to someone pet's... I told her I would post on our business FB page. So I did.

I went to her page to make sure I had tagged her... F ME... She threw him a bday party for his 48 and OW and her adult children were there...

Why in the world is she maintaining contact with ME if she is having parties with H and OW???

I don't have years... I have 1 year to turn this around. Its not going to happen.

LH you are right he doesn't give 2 SH*TS about me. Why am I so stupid?