I am going to try to make this simple. Let him get his stuff and get the h*ll out of there. Go absolutely 100% NC unless it's about D. He will either like his new life or he may look back and realize what he gave up. You have absolutely no control over it.
Listen to me when I say he 100% thinks he's doing the right thing and could care 2 $hits about you. Then can and probably will change many years down the road.
There are no tricks, gimmicks, protocols to shorten the process. Time and space are your allies.
Last edited by job; 04/11/2001:14 PM. Reason: edited language
