H: What time will you be up tomorrow. Me: I will be home by 2pm
H: So waiting till 2
WTH? Earlier this week I offered Saturday at 5pm OR Sunday at 2pm to get his stuff. When he left on Wednesday he stated 'so Sunday then'... I said yes.
I've stayed firm on my availability. Is he just trying to get me to roll over and be a doormat? Standing firm and NOT giving into him to come earlier is having a backbone and despite him being angry over it he is more likely to respect me?
Is he just trying in a round about way for me to spill my plans WITHOUT having to ask WHY I won't be home until 2pm. Or is he just in H fantasy land of being selfish and the world revolves around him an his needs and thinking anything about mine???
I know I have a need to please him.... to get his approval... I need to stand firm...
