CWarrior: Thank you for your kind words and support.
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If she returns, a long road ahead. Keep that good head on your shoulders.
Even if she ends contact, continues IC and MC, I have decided she will not be moving back in for a while. She is going to have to earn that. However, if she does the work we all agree on, then I will spend time with her. Hell, I want to spend time with her and you all know that. I just want to redraw my boundaries a bit. I won't pursue but I will be available to her (if that makes sense)?
But she still needs to go NC. Just because she is saying she will doesn't mean anything. I will say she is no longer blaming me or angry with me. Sandi mentioned that being a sign and I have to agree. My W has a totally different temperament, although, the only interaction has been about our D. But even that led to fighting before.
