Originally Posted by sandi2
BTW, asking her for weekly updates......until she finally tells you to stop contacting her? Well, I don't get why you kept pushing, when you obviously don't want a D.


I don’t want a divorce, but I just feel like I do not have a choice in the matter. I wish I had the patience to just wait and wait, but I don’t...

Originally Posted by CWarrior
Good lesson here: If you want a D, ask your lawyer to get it done. If you don't want a D, let it be. Hounding your partner to make progress towards a D is an inconsistent action in most situations.


You are right, it’s just so frustrating, she is the one who started another relationship and wants to leave our marriage. So she should be the one to do the work to end her current relationship. I get that is a fool’s errand, but it’s still frustrating.