I had been pushing for the divorce, asking for weekly updates, and she kept finding reasons to delay it, until finally she told me to stop contacting her and she was getting a lawyer. I didn't want to jeopardize the agreement we had come to so I thought I would just wait for contact from the lawyer. Stupidly I just kept waiting, and here we are six weeks later, and she finally messages me, but nothing about the divorce. I just don't get it...
I doubt you will ever get it.
BTW, asking her for weekly updates......until she finally tells you to stop contacting her? Well, I don't get why you kept pushing, when you obviously don't want a D.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
