Hi MoGirl, if you did wrong blaming your H for what D23 is going through, it's okay to send an earnest apology. IMHO a good apology is heartfelt (doesn't come from a place of fear), specific, avoids excuses, and doesn't ask anything in return. Then, forgive yourself and move on! We all make mistakes. (:
After I calmed down, I called him and apologized. Then we had a normal discussion about our D's problems. I'm probably over thinking it, but I'm worried this argument has pushed him further away. We have been getting along really well the last few weeks. Time will tell. Funny how we LBS's are so concerned about pushing the WAS's futher away when all they seem to care about is themselves. I guess this is why we use this time to GAL and take care of ourselves.
Maybe the DB light bulb in my head just turned on. LOL.
Me: 47 H: 45 T: 24 M:23 D23 BD #1 12/19: ILYBNILWY BD #2 2/20: I discovered H was having an affair with OW. (OW is 21 and lives in another country) Current R status: Separated.
