Hello everyone,



It dawned on me that it has been AGES since I updated.

So here are a few things.



Living situation is much improved, right about the time of my last post, I had started seeing a lovely lady who has a 8yo daughter.

S5.5 is doing really well, and adores her and her daughter.

In a new home, which is gorgeous. I feel so at home there. Peaceful.

Court regarding ex-FIL is still ongoing (over 2 years now!!) but things are going very well in that regard also.

EX-W and I speak on occasion regarding S5.5, and beyond a few bits of poor communication, we are co-parenting amicably.



New job is going really well, finances are not so hard anymore.

S5.5 is growing amazingly well, so all in all. A good update!!



The recent pandemic has hardly been an impact and its shaping up to be a great summer.

I hope you are all doing well.



It really is incredible how long it takes to gain perspective, and to truly leave old wounds behind. Its worth the long haul. Its worth the hurt.

I feel like a totally renewed man. And its pretty great.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds