[quote=KitCat]He has checked out and isn't coming back.
KitCat, I've never seen your situation as hopeless.
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Your one of the few. Both of my bff's - one male and one female said its so completely over for him. He is not coming back.
Most of the reading I'm doing is that people give up too soon and if they just hung in a little longer things would turn around.
I don't want to give up too soon. But, frankly at times it feels I'm being buried alive.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm down 18lb (wish it was 28lb but I'll take it) I look better than the last time he saw me. Hair and make up is on point!! Well about as point as you can be in times of no hairstylists. I'm in yoga pants because he can't not look at a great butt in yoga pants. Nice snug T to accentuate the assets. Nice perfume.
I bet he will notice! It sounds like you're at your sexiest and most beautiful and he may miss that.
[quote]The most effective changes are the ones he notices without prompting.
I sure hope so!!!! I didn't say a word about it. I've been working soooo hard on myself. I hate exercising. I always procrastinate but the minute I've done it for the day I'm so happy and proud of myself... but I hate the process.
I am doing this for myself - when my weight is down I FEEL BETTER. I will smile more. I'm more outgoing. I feel confident in my own skin.
But I sooooo want to be noticed. I get it that being detached is not caring what he thinks. BUT we haven't laid eyes on each other in over 3 weeks. I certainly noticed him. Surely he noticed me???
