Good luck. You have a kid, so I'm trying to not be as harsh, and rooting for you to succeed.
For reference, my WW / STBXW called me one night drunk crying and asking to R. She said she would quit her job, etc... since she works with OM. She called from OM's place, while she is living with OM, and was lying to me on the phone about it. She hid and lied about this fact for months thinking I'm stupid to know the facts. I didn't take the bait.
We also did the "trying" dance for 3 months, but everyday it was just me lies everyday until she finally moved out.
