He somehow is coming all this way to print something out and scan it --- really? You need to come an hour? There is no where closer?
Regardless I did call him back after he texted today. He has agreed to let me come pick him up.
Clear boundaries were set ---
He uses printer/scanner He gets mail He leaves totes He takes bike and goes on his way
I told him I sent information on affidavit to atty and will let him know
The only time he got a little upset was that I was contacting atty before signing anything. But, I told him I was in contact with her today already.
He did open up and state he has no idea why he has to do this to get the mortgage but I told him its standard when only one person is on the mortgage and your asset is joint. We've had to do this before when we refinanced over the years each time interest rates dropped enough. Its just that I always took care of that and he just didn't pay attention to those things.
Either way I am seeing him in person for the first time in over 3 weeks.
I'm down 18lb (wish it was 28lb but I'll take it) I look better than the last time he saw me. Hair and make up is on point!! Well about as point as you can be in times of no hairstylists. I'm in yoga pants because he can't not look at a great butt in yoga pants. Nice snug T to accentuate the assets. Nice perfume.
Job you said they notice... I'm counting on that.
AS - you said to keep it business like / emotion less.
I can do this. I will not have any expectations. Even if this is overall pleasant and we are nice. It means nothing. He is getting a house. He is moving out. He is moving on. He has a gf.
On an odd note my MIL is texting like crazy today. Right now over trying to find a dog a home.
