Originally Posted by AnotherStander
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Difference in interactions --- like he will warm up to me? He is very checked out.


No that is way, way down the road. It took my ex years to warm up again. Right now the goal is to end the disrespect because it leaves you spinning and anxious.



Thank you AS.

I won't say I'm a little disappointed. Years to warm up to me?? We have NO children in common. We have no circle of friends in common. He ditched all mutual friends when he left. We will be living in 2 different towns.

Once our D is final... there will be no more communication. No reason to reach out.

Maybe that's why I'm being a jerk.

I have a year at most to turn this around... he keeps acting like he is so p*ssed he is going right for D immediately.

You are right. Its up to me to get off the the merry go round.

Last edited by job; 04/08/20 03:32 PM. Reason: edited language