Btw, my W told me today again she was sorry. She also said she's trying to give up the OM but it's hard.
It doesn't matter how many times she says she is sorry. She needs to tell you what she is sorry about.
Trying to give up OM.......? What does that mean? She used to text him XXXX times per day, but has cut back to XXX? That's not good enough. She has to go cold turkey. She can't taper off an addiction.
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I just validated and said I can appreciate the fact that it is.
You men and your NGS! This is not the time to get soft. In her wayward mindset, that's how she'll see it.
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At the very least, I see slight progress.
Where? I see a WW who is tossing out a few apologies (without specifying what she did wrong), and then adds that she's trying to give up OM.....but it's hard. So.....none of it means a thing! When she gets serious, you'll know it.
Have you ever had someone give a backhanded apology? "If I've done something to offend you, then I apologize". It has zero value. It's worthless, if they don't name the offense. Google backhanded apologies.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
You men and your NGS! This is not the time to get soft. In her wayward mindset, that's how she'll see it.
