Sandi, my IC hasn't said that but I'm guessing I'm co-dependent. I'm guessing the only way to beat that is by being alone.
Btw, my W told me today again she was sorry. She also said she's trying to give up the OM but it's hard. I just validated and said I can appreciate the fact that it is.
At the very least, I see slight progress. But I know there is a long way to go. She is totally to slither under the door. But I've told her no.
