Thanks you very much Ovr!! I needed that support!

Will see about father in law. I see your point!
Def Don't need to do it yet.

Update
Had a short discussion tonight and now she has left.
I agreed to leave the kids at daycare tomorrow despite it being her morning.
I said, yes I can do that tomorrow since I am home (Corona) but it can't be a recurring thing.
Not great I know but it gives me a calm day and longer day alone with my kids beflre I am gone for a few days.


She says she can't live like we are living now. "this could go on for several months or even a year".
I tried to understand her view on the living situation but she can't or doesn't want to explain.
W - "feels like I am living a double life"
No [censored]...! I didn't Respond.

She wants to value the house again and wants me to buy her share so she can get an apartment.
I said if you rent something and don't live here I will pay for the house (mortgage etc).
SInce I am not SURE I will afford to buy her share the other option is to sell which is stupid right now.
She seemed willing to sell now despite low/bad market atm.
She might even agree to a low valuation if I buy her share of the house...


Last thing she did was brush her teeth. (at 19:30)
Time to make out and...

Last edited by Mumin; 04/07/20 07:02 PM.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021