Will see about father in law. I see your point! Def Don't need to do it yet.
Update Had a short discussion tonight and now she has left. I agreed to leave the kids at daycare tomorrow despite it being her morning. I said, yes I can do that tomorrow since I am home (Corona) but it can't be a recurring thing. Not great I know but it gives me a calm day and longer day alone with my kids beflre I am gone for a few days.
She says she can't live like we are living now. "this could go on for several months or even a year". I tried to understand her view on the living situation but she can't or doesn't want to explain. W - "feels like I am living a double life" No [censored]...! I didn't Respond.
She wants to value the house again and wants me to buy her share so she can get an apartment. I said if you rent something and don't live here I will pay for the house (mortgage etc). SInce I am not SURE I will afford to buy her share the other option is to sell which is stupid right now. She seemed willing to sell now despite low/bad market atm. She might even agree to a low valuation if I buy her share of the house...
Last thing she did was brush her teeth. (at 19:30) Time to make out and...
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Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021