I wouldn't initiate many conversations unless something funny or strange happens right in front of you and you crack a joke for example.
Leave the intimacy alone, but be subtly seductive IMO. You want him to want you, but you can't cave too soon just because he wants a little hanky panky either.
He wants you to move to a new place with him? Is that what you mean?
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