My therapist believes that so much of our S is about her being unhappy with where she was with her life (not working, focusing on art, dependent on me) and that her mindset right now is all about being totally independent, not needing anyone for anything, and so on.
Maybe. I hope your IC helps you focus on you. Neither you nor your IC can really know exactly what's going on with her.
Originally Posted by SteveS
She's had so many opportunities to really create distance, none of which she's taken - our finances are still combined, she's on my insurance, and so on.
Common WAS behavior. What benefit would she have by separating finances and getting off your insurance?
