Here we are part 9 ---- what progress have I made? Completely unsure.

https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2891677&page=11

Spent last night wanting to text/call and plead with him about giving our M more time. That's not good and not productive and is definitely a push behavior.

I didn't.

H will be coming this weekend to get his stuff. He hasn't seen me in 3 weeks. What will he notice? Will he even look at me?

I know I have to put my game face on and act "as if". I have to remind myself that any contact on his side has solely been about money.

Even last night he was contacting me about charges on the credit card and listed 2 stores, 2 gas, pet store and then he stated that my annual membership to X was on that card.

I responded that I had not been to the 2 stores, the pet store was 40lb of PUPPY food, and other PUPPY stuff, and then I said I had no idea that the membership was tied to that card - how much was that?

He stated the membership was $15 he thought and would double check. The pet store was almost $100.

He then came back and said the 2 stores were probably his cause they were from early March.

I later stated so I owe you $15 then.

I completely left out the pet store. I will see if he wants me paying for this puppy he states he is buying a house for.

He hasn't responded to my last text at all. Honestly it was dumb thing to contact over - you are coming after me for $15? I have been paying your cell phone and insurance.

But again - he isn't asking how I am. He frankly stated he doesn't care about me.

This weekend is going to be really hard.