I would probably not meet your father in law. I'm not sure there is a good reason, although you alluded to the possibility that one exists. It's more likely to be something negative then positive IMO. I was bad in sitch about meeting the in laws. It was pressure on my W and an emotional setback on me. Maybe you can explain further why you want to do this.
As for your W, I wouldn't answer the "when are you coming home" questions. It's a game. You did fine responding to her questions and prodding. She's trying to get you out the door. Don't let it get to you.
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I also agreed I can write to her if I know the time that I will be coming home, since it is so tough for her waiting around in the evenings. (I am usually not home when she has picked up the kids on her days)
Why does this matter so much to her?
Just tell her you are not going to keep discussing moving out. It's crazy how she keeps pushing this. She knows where the door is and she shouldn't let it hit her on the way out either.
Stay strong buddy keep posting, we got your back.
Last edited by ovrrnbw; 04/07/2001:23 PM.
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