Hi again,

Any pointers on the above?

Update from this morning:
W asked repeatedly last night when I was coming home?
Didnt answer specifically other than that i WAS coming home.

This morning she was frustrated and asked what I will do today.
I just said same as yesterday. Work, and training. (from home due to Corona)
W - This whole thing with us living together is so hard for me. Cant you live with your brother now, on the days that are my days with the kids? (My brothers girlfriend has her apartment back)
Me - I understand it is tough for you. It is not about that. I want to live in my house, my home.
W - You will have to buy my share of the house. I feel like I dont have a home.
Me - Yes if I can afford it. Or we sell the house.

A while later.
W - You could have been the one who picked up the kids today.
Me - This is what we agreed to do since you were away a few weekends back.
W - Yes and we had also agreed we were going to alternate living in the house.
Me - Yes that's true but I have changed my mind about that. We can talk more tonight I don't want the kids to hear this.

I also agreed I can write to her if I know the time that I will be coming home, since it is so tough for her waiting around in the evenings. (I am usually not home when she has picked up the kids on her days)
Not great to agree on that I know, but I feel I am loosing bargaining power now that I have filed for D.

Seems like she will push for selling of the house or that I find another place to live 50% of the time.
I will hold my ground tonight, listen and mostly say I will have to think.
I also want to discuss a more long-term perspective (at least in regards to our 6 month waiting period).
I dont see a problem living together for the 6 months, especially given Coronas affect on the economy...


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021