I feel i should also add -

These improvements ( your WW mentioned smoking and healthier lifesytle ) - these arent just to woo WW back or a short term fix - These should be life changing and permenant - You are doing these for YOU, not WW or to impress / influence WW - Do whats best for YOU, but make it lifelong - One of the biggest things i have learnt on my journey is complaisance - its not attractive and probably a reason why a lot of partners start to look elsewhere. Work on a better you - you have the gift of time. Once you have healed, are a stronger and more confident you, carry on to self improve - dont slip or get complaisAnt


Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..

Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.