hi FS! Its great to hear you can work from home! It is a blessing when you have to deal with this situation and your DB in parallel. I was going to add a comment as dillydaf just did, I remember being around 14 and an absolute idiot with my parents, like I wanted to grow up and get my freedom asap. I do not know your situation with her but I would say do not punish yourself too much, be fun and positive and she will be drawn to you.
I have totally changed my attitude towards my S6 from I need to discipline how he is behaving as if he could get away with anything now that we are going through this separation to I will be fun, love him and reward all his positive behaviour and I can tell it has been working wonderfully (my W thinks is the separation and being away form a broken marriage but I am sure my changes have had an effect). Remember this FS, we get the ball rolling, we build up the momentum and the world around will follow!
What things are you doing at home to keep you happy? I just spent a fortune on simracing equipment that is arriving tomorrow
Love, PK
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19