It’s funny you mention the part about my use of “us” because I noticed it too, after I wrote it down. I’m going to try to stop saying that. And you’re observation that we aren’t working together in D4’s best interest is spot on and is a huge part of what I’m so angry and (ultimately sad) about. He’s pushing to present like he’s so eager to coparent and be on the same page. Well, until he broke my trust and dismissed it casually, I thought we were already doing that. HE ruined that. I’ve been doing my best to work with him in D4s interest all along. And how he’s trying to act like I’m the one who isn’t cooperating. Infuriating.
I’d already decided not to respond until tomorrow, so I’m going with that so I can draft and settle into it. And I see how my version does sound dismissive and like I’m hanging on to control; I don’t want to do that or sound that way.
