Separated

[Liz11]

Hi Sam...I just read through your situation, and I wanted to thank you for sharing everything you did, and for continuing to share updates. I remember you posting on my thread that you thought our situations had some similarities, and I can definitely see them now. I think my husband is in a "pull away" period after having moved back towards our relationship fairly quickly following our separation, and, as I'm sure you know, that's particularly hard. It's tough not to think they'll just get stuck in that mode or make a decision while in that mode, yet I'm always inclined to doubt the positive moments, too. It also really pinged with me when you were describing marital counseling and, even with the therapist you guys worked well with, that he was kind of pushing your husband to make a decision about reconciliation, and how that might have been too fast. Anyway, I think you handled your situation so well, and it's really a model for others. I'm hoping for the best for you as things continue forward.