Try and stop thinking emotionally - its harming you.
I agree I am acting on emotion. Or should I say, I am writing on this board based on emotion. I am not acting on the things I post here.
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I mean joing dating sites etc - Really - Your vision is so off centre its crazy.
Okay, good point. That was an emotional move.
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You need to take a step back, breath and not make any decissions without thinking about it, and even after you have thought about it, think again. - and again
Okay. That is also good advice I need to listen to.
LH:
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You have a very disrespectful WW on your hands and IMO the best way to handle them is with tough love. Like BS said now is the time to work on yourself and get really comfortable being alone. You don’t realize how important that is right now. I also agree with BS that your a smart guy but right now you are being controlled by your emotions. Unless you learn to have infinite patience you mine as well file for D right now. You’re in a marathon right now and you just past the quarter mile. You have the gift of time so use it wisely.
I hear you. I do. And honestly, I have been good about ending communication. I have not reached out to her unless I absolutely necessary b/c of my daughter. Being alone is an understatement. With social distancing, I am really, really alone. I think that is why I am having a hard time letting her go to focus on me. Because my mind has A LOT of time to wander. Being able to GAL with friends would give me something to look forward to...I don't have that.
Thank you both for your support. I don't think you re picking on me at all. And LH, you are right, I am in deep but I don't want to be.
