I also agree with you Dawn about it not having to be sports. I'm glad he's into scouting. Is he on a swim team? That's a miserable sport ... waiting hours upon hours for your kid's 2 minutes of glory in a hot, steamy pool area. Talk about Covid Cooties, shudder. And I'm someone who adores swimming! I think because he hates to lose, putting him in a position where he's forced to deal with that and a coach managing him wouldn't be a bad thing.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver