BINGO Don! I was thinking the same thing and trying to figure out how to say it without sounding like I was saying the doc is a bad mom because I try very hard not to judge other peoples’ parenting. BUT, he’s a kid. The doc makes choices for him and if he is not getting play dates our outside play or whatever, that is partly on her. You have repeatedly said he is soft and you say the doc says this too but again, he’s a kid so is that all his fault? If he was a teenager, I would say it is totally on him but he’s still young enough that he is not really calling his own shots. I can’t help but wonder if seeing how she parents gives you pause about parenting together in the future because if y’all marry, you WILL have to parent together.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
