I'm going to chip in here and say that if you want to move on with your life, start listening to LH19.
And more importantly - Try and stop thinking emotionally - its harming you.
Your WW is acting on emotion - Look where she is.
A lot of the stuff you have writen here / your actions - emotion..
I mean joing dating sites etc - Really - Your vision is so off centre its crazy.
You need to take a step back, breath and not make any decissions without thinking about it, and even after you have thought about it, think again. - and again
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I do see some progress in her ability to show remorse. And even though I want our family to be able to spend a few hours with each other, I know I am inviting her to eat cake (thanks LH). But doing this alone now for weeks is eating at me
You see what she wants you to see.. The same way some snakes play dead to lure in their pray.
Doing this for weeks ? - again, you are thinking with emotion and it isnt helping you..
More self improvement, become less needy and start to try and think with logic...
Maybe make a list of the qualities you would like to see in yourself - then starting working on them..
I'd start with less needy, less emotional, less reactive.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
