I thought I was clear but I’ll repeat it again. Your W is not showing remorse. Right out of google “it means that your conscience is working on you, your past actions are biting you back and making you feel very regretful”. Don’t you think at that point she would end the affair and beg for forgiveness?
Your has repeatedly said f you, it’s over and she’s going to punch you in the face and you view this as progress wtf? You need time and space from her.
I know you want to see progress but right now it’s progress to not make matters worse.