I agree...I have no say and honestly I dont want to be that person. The jerk boyfriend that comes in and drops the hammer so less is certainly more at this juncture. I also try to remember that he is a product of his environment. He has no 1 on 1 play time with any kids, never had a play date or a sleepover with any kids his age. The only interaction he gets is group activities in school or when he was in boy scouts. Then when he is with adults he gets 100% of the attention and no one else to compete with.