Yo L.....it is frustrating, I am not sure why and hitting the pause button is good. Ever since the Doc's XH went into the hospital we haven't had a weekend to ourselves in 3 months. Before the Covid craze the Doc's mom would take the young lad 1 night a week so we could have a date night. Now we don't get that either so that started us down the path of having the kids around more frequently than planned so we could see each other. That obviously sped things up a bit which brought all of these things to light.
