I have also come to realize the less interaction I have with him the better. He is just better left to his own devices. Last night I went to the Doc's house and spent the night. I probably said 15 words to him the entire time, hello, goodnight and good morning. It was much easier on my frustration levels as well.
He does not do a good job of making people feel welcome in his home. Not a big deal to me (when I got there last night the Doc made him come out and say Hi to me) but for my daughters who are a roughly the same age a bigger deal sine they want to play and interact with him.
Anyway, all the more the reason for things to slow down which puts me more at ease. None of this will even potentially come close to happening until my daughters feel comfortable knowing it is there home as well. I can't have them coming for their week at a time with me feeling weird and being treated like it's not their home as well.
