Hi Alison, I hope things are still going ok with your H and between him and eldest! Now it's the school holidays maybe your anxiety will lessen. I've been surprised how well my kids have adapted to a very strange situation, but I have always trusted them to do their best at schoolwork and also that most of their learning takes place out of school (the stuff they know from the internet astonishes me daily!) It's good to see you valuing some of the differences between you and H, I think that is vital for any M. And also good to see you working on yourself, well done x