I tried remote IC in my home and got interrupted. It was also really uncomfortable talking privately in my house and sound travels a lot. So i tried it once but I don’t feel like i can do it again.
And like i had said it seemed to be going really well through the weeks of quarantine. It felt like we were doing things together, helping each other, being kind to one another, and sharing moments.
There were one or two tough patches but all and all it was good. Today we had a campfire, roasted hot dogs and marshmallows together and got family pictures taken. There was a moment when I expressed some frustration but we talked it through.
After dinner as we were cleaning up my wife began to talk about how worn out she was by Our daughter, how Our daughter was constant and how my wife never got a break. Then she brought us up, how we were getting ready to split up and now i never give her a break. She said it felt like I was trying to keep us together. That I was touching her and how i had kissed her (I couldn’t recall when).
She said we needed to get back in touch with our mediator and then we got interrupted by the kids. It seemed to come out of no where and was very disappointing because I really thought we were making progress.