I agree, I see remorse. I see a woman who's sorry she used cheating to get where she is now, who's not sure what she wants long-term.. Plan A (other men).. or Plan B (you), who wants space from you except for you to solve childcare for her. It's unclear if she wants space from OM. She cares about you, probably always will, which is not the same as wanting to be with you or being in-love with you.
Originally Posted by "Letter"
What would you like me to do? Hire a babysitter or my mom etc and expose her potentially?
How worried are you about your ex-wife exposing your D to her mom or a babysitter? (I assume her mom can decide for herself whether or not to watch your kid and how to best protect herself.)
Originally Posted by Letter
I am so sick of fighting and wish we could just have talks without arguing and that seems to be few and far between and I know I am guilty of that. I just get so frustrated and feel like you still want to tell me how and what to feel.
These are good 180s to strive for if any part of them rings true. Fighting, arguing, and controlling others is rarely necessary and aren't good relationship patterns.
