Hi unchien thanks fo an update!
Big ups to you for staying strong so long. You will be glad to be able to look back and say you definitely gave it your all!


I just D'd myself. Tough stuff!
Also really wondering (now that papers are signed) how the hell we got here. Reading more on women, infidelity, attachment etc definitely helps. But I just dont get how she could just leave everything and all of us...

Anyway, keep updating! I will as well.

Last edited by Mumin; 04/05/20 09:07 PM.
Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021